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Monday, December 7, 2009

Bow-Bhaat:
A ceremony is arranged at bridegroom’s house to introduce bride with all the relatives of bridegroom. This is Bou-bhat not only the relatives of bridegroom is invited in the ceremony but also the relatives of bride. Through, this occasion bride is introduced new member in her father-in-low’s house. There is huge arrangement of entertainment in this ceremony. Normally, Bengali fond of eating very much. That’s why entertainment takes main role in all the ceremony.
Bashar sajja – A bed of flower:
After all the formalities of the marriage Bridegroom and bride is sent together to an apart room. In that well decorate room bridegroom & bride meet closely each other for the first time. This is called “Bashor Sajja”. The younger girl & boys are decorating that room with natural flower, decoration paper & perfume. The bride feels shaky in that room. She is in veil sitting on the bed. Bridegroom enters into the room, close the door. Than go to the bride and uncover her veil. From there, they meet closely together. Both of them keep the first honey day in their mind, in their whole life. They stars their future planning, Dream from this “Bashor Sajja”.

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